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Hayley Erbert is opening up about the unexpected emotional rollercoaster of motherhood. The Dancing With the Stars alum welcomed her first baby with Derek Hough just three months ago, but the competing feelings she experiences daily have surprised her most. Her heart is bursting with joy and breaking into pieces all at once.
🔥 Quick Facts
- Baby Name: Everley Capri Hough, born December 29, 2025
- Age Gap: 3 months postpartum, Hayley is reflecting on rapid growth
- Birth Story: First-time parents welcomed a rainbow baby after health struggles
- Emotional Update: Posted Instagram today describing the beautiful contradiction of motherhood
A Mother’s Beautiful Contradiction
Hayley Erbert’s latest Instagram post from April 10 reveals the depth of motherhood’s complexity. “Motherhood is even more complex and contradicting than I could have ever imagined,” she wrote with stunning honesty. The 31-year-old dancer described feeling like she’s living in two places at once—where joy and heartache both exist.
She explained the duality perfectly: “My heart is constantly bursting open, while also breaking into a million pieces.” This raw vulnerability resonated with fans immediately. Everley, now 3 months old, changes daily, and Hayley is experiencing the push and pull of cherishing every moment while grieving the version of her daughter that existed moments before.
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The Grief of Time Moving Too Fast
Hayley addressed her daughter directly in her emotional reflection. She spoke of simultaneously being excited for all the firsts while wishing she could freeze time and never have any lasts. The “pull between holding on and letting go” defines her motherhood experience so far. Time never slows down, she acknowledged, yet she’s trying to soak in every fleeting detail.
This contradiction isn’t something she’s running from—it’s something she’s embracing. “If this is the dichotomy of motherhood, then I’ll try my best to meet it with open arms,” Hayley promised. She’s committed to savoring each version of Everley, every milestone, and every precious moment they share together as a family.
Supporting Her Through Motherhood
| Motherhood Milestone | Details |
| Birth Date | December 29, 2025 |
| Current Age | 3 months postpartum |
| Baby’s Name | Everley Capri Hough |
| Family Status | Rainbow baby after health recovery |
Derek Hough, 40, is standing by Hayley‘s side through every emotional wave. The Dancing With the Stars judge told E! News in February: “I tell her every day, ‘You’re amazing. You were meant for this. You’re such a great mom.’” He added, “I’m even more in love with her.” Derek’s public support demonstrates his deep admiration for Hayley as both a mother and a person navigating this transformative chapter.
“I love being your mom. I love you beyond, Everley. I have truly never felt a love like this.”
— Hayley Erbert, to her daughter on April 10, 2026
The Path to This Precious Rainbow Baby
The journey to baby Everley was far from ordinary. Hayley experienced a life-threatening health crisis before becoming pregnant. She underwent an emergency craniectomy followed by a cranioplasty to recover. When she woke from her medical ordeal, her first question was whether she could still have children. That question makes Everley’s arrival even more meaningful to the family.
Derek and Hayley announced their pregnancy in July 2025, less than a year after her health crisis. The couple considers Everley their “rainbow baby,” a term used for children born after tremendous hardship or loss. They even witnessed a double rainbow on Christmas Day to celebrate their daughter’s approaching arrival, viewing it as a powerful symbol.
How Has Starting Parenthood Changed These Two?
Parenthood has profoundly reshaped both Derek and Hayley’s sense of purpose and gratitude. Hayley shared that motherhood taught her something she couldn’t have learned any other way. In her post, she reflected on how “there are some things in life that change you forever,” and becoming a mother to Everley ranks among life’s most transformative experiences.
The couple welcomed Everley at home in what Hayley describes as a “primal” birth experience. They documented the journey one month later with an emotional video showing her labor and delivery, sharing the intimate details of how their daughter entered the world. This openness about their family journey has inspired countless fans navigating their own parenting experiences and celebrating resilience stories.
Sources
- E! Online – Hayley Erbert’s latest Instagram post about motherhood emotions
- People Magazine – Derek and Hayley Hough introduce baby Everley interview
- ABC News – Hayley Erbert and Derek Hough’s home birth story and rainbow baby journey
